This article was written by Stephen Silver from Honest Pickup. Learn more about Stephen and his business at the bottom of the post. My girlfriend was only slightly taller than I was. Any feelings of manliness or confidence I had would disintegrate. I knew I had nothing to be ashamed of. Logically I knew there was no reason to be upset. She felt more guy dating a taller girl when she wore them. Who was I to tell her what shoes to wear?

But my emotions would override logic. Any person that was laughing was laughing at me. Where did these feelings come from? Why did I feel so intimidated and insecure around taller women? There was a girl in one of my classes at the University of Florida. She was really attractive and I had a massive crush on her. She was also about three inches taller than me. It was guy dating a taller girl Saturday or Sunday morning and I sauntered into the grocery store with my friends, carefree and unaware of who was waiting for me around the corner.

I turned into aisle three and saw her looking at the items on the shelf about ten feet in front of me. I had a flash instinct to duck into another aisle before she saw me. As I stood there with my mouth slightly open she turned, looked at me and smiled. I was too late. I was excited to converse with her and guy dating a taller girl sense that she liked me a little bit but for some reason I felt unworthy.

Guy dating a taller girl psyched myself out before I even had a chance! And this was a girl who wore volleyball t-shirts and shorts most of the time. An odd apology for sure. You should always try to dress well when you're in public — even for a quick trip to the grocery store. You never know who you'll run in to!

I apologized for being tired, being hungover, and for my hair being messy. I just kept rattling them off. Neither one of us really knew why. Daniel Radcliffe and Erin Darke Source. They tend to laugh at me when I ask if they have something against shorter guys. Ironically, my two shortest friends are the ones with no problems getting girlfriends or attracting girls. They even have problems with girls in their lives fighting over them. Not a terrible problem to have. What is it about these dudes that enables them to attract so many women?

I think it comes down to three principles, all three of which can be worked into your own mindset and behaviors. They know what they bring to the table and they lay it out boldly for the girl to see. If she wants to ignore them because they stand a couple inches shorter than her… so be it. Shame definitely has its place. Girls will very rarely count you out on height alone.

The guy was miniature in stature but his confidence was through the roof. He had no hesitation or shame and he regularly told us about his various conquests. I was somewhat terrified of talking to the older, taller attractive girls at school so I would grill him about his mindset and how he was able to project such a massive confidence with such a diminutive stature.

It was graphic and over-the-top but he said it in a no-nonsense way that was hilarious. The point is that he used his sense of humor to turn the tables on any female who thought about counting him out based on his height. Maybe you dress well or have a great sense of humor. Stephen is the co-founder of Honest Pick-Up, a site dedicated to helping guys ditch their fears and anxiety and make their dating lives completely stress-free.

Check it out at www. Never miss a new post or video! Sign up for free updates, and I'll send you the "How to Dress Taller" guide for free. The only place height has been a disadvantage, as far as dating goes, is online. I totally agree with the 3 points. Actually I never thought about 2, height is nothing to be ashamed of. I never thought for a second not trying to hit on a girl I liked because of the difference in height. My wife is taller than me, about 2 to 3 inches and neither she or me EVER really care.

The message here is as was mention on this article: I have been trying to imbibe 1 and 3, and it is working. Still to try 2. I somehow lose my game and start the self deprecation engine. How to get over this? Hope helps my advice. Big difference between observing height differences and feeling ashamed over a genetic trait over which you had no control. Learn to build your self-esteem and confidence just as you would your muscles in the gym, or your wardrobe to dress better. It takes time and hard work.

I actually found that the best way to be less insecure around tall people is to be around tall people! Same with getting rejected by women, the more you put yourself out there to be rejected the easier it is when it happens. Brock, I follow your advice to dress to enhance my relationship and business game. So I enjoyed this post! According to some places on the internet, shorter guys should be insecure about height. I struggled for years with insecurity related to height.

Insecurities are a part of life I suppose. Muscles and dressing well thanks Brock! So does cash in the bank. Focus on the positive, learn from and move on from the negative, and stay off the internet echo-chambers unless it is a positive influence. I read through your blog, good stuff. Even though I am married and obviously not approaching women to date, I still found your writing and positive attitude to be…refreshing. Brock, I think this article by Stephen Silver on how shorter men can date taller women is very inspiring guy dating a taller girl thought provoking for the vast majority of male readers who follow your excellent advice on dressing well.

However, for those of us in the minority who are gay, my experience with trying to date other gay men is much more complicated. Things that others may think are superficial seem to be more important. Of course a sense of humor and a good conversationalist are always attractive traits. So Brock, I sincerely thank you for that. However, I would say that difference in height is not as critical, certainly within 3 or 4 inches difference petite man to taller man. This is a very inspiring article.

I agree that how you project yourself in terms of your personality and your character are much more important in life than how tall you are.

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Height cannot be controlled, but attitude can. Don't tell me I look taller than I am. Take Our Survey And Let Us Know! It is quite possible to find a guy who is tall, but with a personality or even attitude the size of a pea. That being said, I might not approach you simply because literally every girl that I've approached that was more than an inch taller than me wouldn't give me the time of day. Select a gender to cast your vote: A website by Thought. My ex-wife was 5'9", I've dated 6 footers, and present SO is 5'8".